Being Transgender - Is It A Choice?

Being transgender is not a choice. Perhaps having the surgery is a choice but if you choose not too, do you really want to go to your grave with the wrong genitals?

When I was a teenager, I though I was a gay boy who just happened to like wearing clothes. Liking men more than woman was just a side note. I never even though that I could be a woman trapped in a mans body. Later in life, much later in fact, my eldest sister told me about her twin dying at birth and how she felt that I was probably that twin re-incarnated. I thought she was crazy. I don’t any more. In fact, it all seems to make sense. At least some of the time. I still spend a lot of time wondering if having the surgery was the biggest mistake of my life. I am now fairly sure it was.

I wish I had lived the role of a woman before the surgery. I live in the country and my doctor had no problem with me not living the role because the area where I live is so redneck.  I am not sure if it would have mattered. I mean maybe I still would have had the surgery but now I will never now because it’s already done.

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